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Ever have a speechless moment?

I did, recently, when I walked into our daycare to pick up the Wee Beasts.

Dress Up takes on a whole new meaning when this is what the end result is:

Cheerleader dress up time

Gimme a B!

Gimme an I!

Gimme a G!

Gimme an A!

What’s that spell?

BIG A!

Rah rah rah.

Actually, the outfit was better when I first walked it. At that time, the sandals were replaced with white high heeled boots. But by the time I was able to snap a pic, Big A had started “transforming” back into himself.

Cheerleader Barbie, look out. You have some competition.

I’m in love.

And the shocking thing is, it’s a feeling that I haven’t had in years. I haven’t felt this way since before I met The Doc, back in my younger and carefree days. The time when I was less constrained and concerned with proper appearances. When I felt free enough to let loose and do things without a care for what anyone else thought.

Don’t get me wrong. I was still somewhat conservative and not one to play the field. I always had one steady love in my life and wasn’t the type of girl to casually dole out affection.

But I might need to change that. I find myself drawn to variety and wanting something…different.

And The Doc doesn’t know about any of this. Yet. I have to find a way to break it to him. To let him know that our current, conservative way of life isn’t quite as fulfilling as I was hoping it would be. To let him know that I’m yearning for something else.

Please help me figure out how to deal with this. I need help making a decision.

brown, orange, and blue hobo bag with bead handle

brown, green and orange hobo bag with bead handle

brown and blue hobo bag with bead handle and sparkles

Which of these fabulously hippy-chic bags should I get?! I really want to get all of them. They are only $20 each. Quite a bargain, if you ask me.

They take me back to my pre-Doc days. He called my style “earthy” and I don’t think he meant it in a good way. Since we’ve been together, my style has morphed into a more tailored, conservative, respectable-wife-of-a-doctor version. I’m still artsy in some ways, and tend to use bold colors and geometric patterns to lend a creative twist to my wardrobe choices.

But I don’t have anything so…so…hippy-esque in my closet anymore. And I want it. I want it BADLY!

I think I might be able to convince The Doc to let me have one. For the carefree days of summer. Everyone needs something carefree for summer, right?

But which one?

I love the orange and blue together. Very striking.

But the earthiness and natural vibrancy of the green one is drawing me in.

Oh, but the third one, the one that’s blue and cream. It has teeny tiny little crystals sprinkled around the top inch or so of the pattern. Dreamy!

What do you think? Should I go for it? I think having a fling with one of these bags might add a little spark to our marriage. Should I take a little walk on the wild side (or at least the earthy-hippy-in-me side)?

I love that kids are completely and utterly okay with themselves. I wish that we adults could have the self-esteem that most children just naturally possess.

Take fashion, for instance.

I do my best to make sure the wee beasts are put together nicely before we leave the house. Shirts and pants (or shorts now that the weather is changing) are coordinated. Colors work together and don’t clash. Comfy sweatpants aren’t paired with a button-down shirt. You get the idea.

But as beasts are prone to do as they get older, they start to get opinionated. And all of the parenting advice you hear or read tells you that you should pick your battles wisely. Let the beasts have some control over their clothes and you can be the boss about bedtime. Or so the books say.

So this morning, it was raining as I pulled some clothes from the closet. My beasts are close in age but I don’t match their clothes like I see some parents doing. They aren’t twins, after all. And even if they were, I wouldn’t make them match. Twice the clothes, twice the expense, twice the therapy later in life.

But I digress.

This morning I put together two nicely styled outfits. Big A was in a green checked pair of shorts and a green shirt with one trendy line of argyle. Little A was coordinated with a solid green short and lime green shirt with an all-over argyle print. Similar. Not matchy-matchy.

Because I had picked out the clothes, I told them they could choose shoes and put out two pair for each to pick from. Oh, but it was raining. Did I mention that?

Big A believes that even one rain drop is enough to require rain boots. I told him it wasn’t raining very much and to select his shoes. He tossed them aside and ran to the closet for his Iron Man rain boots. Iron Man. Black, red and gold. Not in the realm of earth tones that would have worked with the green ensembles.

So, of course, Little A had to emulate his big bro and also tossed my chosen shoes to the side in favor of his Lightening McQueen rain boots. Also black, red, and gold. At least they were still coordinating with each other.

So off to school they went. Shorts just covering their kneecaps (it’s early in the season…they’ll be above the knees after the summer growth spurts kick in), and boots coming up to their knees. That alone was enough to bother my fashion sensibilities.

I cringed a bit as they confidently strode into their classrooms, wincing as other parents looked over with raised eyebrows. A couple gave me a knowing look, as if they’ve shared in similar fashion crisis in their homes. But the beasts didn’t notice. They walked right over to their friends, most of whom shrieked in delight and made note of their cool boots. At least all beasts their age share in the same misguided fashionability.

So I guess it all worked out. Their self-esteem is well in tact and their feet are dry.

I did leave their teachers alternative shoes in case they decide later in the day that those boots aren’t made for walking after all. But if they keep them on all day, I’m going to snap their pics and add them to this post. I’m sure they will beam with pride at how momma wants to show off their stylish look.

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